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Divorce Mediation and Contested Divorces in New Jersey

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New Jersey Divorce Mediation encourages a civil parting resulting in a Successful Divorce.
Divorce Mediation

No matter how heated the issues may seem now, 98% of all divorce cases in New Jersey end in a settlement. Why not plan a strategy for what is 98% certain to occur?

If there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation, discover how N.J. Divorce Mediation, recognized and supported by the Superior Court of New Jersey, can result in a successful divorce:
  • Saves Money and Time - a process that is quicker and costs substantially less in both money and goodwill.
  • A Civil Parting - participation in a fair process that ensures understanding, choice, and a result that statistically is unlikely to be brought back to court in post-divorce court motions;
  • A Methodology and Forum - the mediation process promotes understanding, fair and equal bargaining power, and empowers the parties to know how resolve problems in the future without going to court;
  • Fair and Reasonable - both parties equally contribute to the terms of the divorce so that it is fair and reasonable for their particular situation. Statistically, these cases never need judicial enforcement;
  • An Agreed Upon Parenting Plan - that has the least impact on the children and respects the legitimate concerns of both parents;
  • Privacy and Confidence - discussions with the divorce mediator about your finances, children or spouse cannot be used as evidence against either party or by third parties.
Unlike the typical experience you may have had with other attorneys:
  • The type and number of cases is limited;
  • You speak directly with your lawyer/mediator;
  • Your lawyer/mediator personally handles your entire case;
  • Your telephone calls are promptly returned.
  • Your lawyer/mediator knows the current status of your case at any moment;
  • You are treated with respect and dignity;
  • Clear and understandable billing that itemizes and details every charge;
  • Visa and MasterCard accepted for payment.
Planning to Marry?

Whether its a first marriage or a subsequent marriage, there are concerns that need to be addressed. Couples MediationTM provides a safe and confidential forum to discuss: prior children; parental gifts; large debt being brought into the relationship; health issues; pre-marital agreements and other sensitive topics.

When Litigation is Unavoidable

Salvatore De Lello, Jr., Esq. is an experienced New Jersey divorce trial lawyer and qualified divorce mediator, trial hardened from years of litigating many contested divorces, while sensitive to your needs. Skilled in negotiations and creative solutions, he is reasonable and fair, but a zealous advocate when confrontation is the only solution.

When the other party is unreasonable, refuses to negotiate fairly, threatens you, takes or hides assets, makes negative statements about you in front of your children, is drug or alcohol addicted, or is having an affair, then your only option may be to go court:
  • Protect yourself if the situation gets ugly or violent.
  • Defense and prosecution of Domestic Violence and Criminal Cases;
  • Setting and enforcing Child Support, College Education and issues concerning Special Needs children;
  • Parenting Plans, Custody and Developmental Needs of Children in Parental Time-Sharing issues, Relocation out of state;
  • Complex divorce litigation, multi-party litigation, and multi-jurisdiction issues;
  • Tax issues involving equitable distribution, alimony and closely held businesses;
  • Cases involving drug and alcohol abuse, physical abuse, psychological or emotional abuse of spouses, children and non-related live-ins;
  • Business valuation, alimony and pension distribution issues;
  • Issues concerning cash businesses, hidden assets and cheating spouses;
  • Grandparent visitation issues;
  • Pre-nuptial Agreements, palimony, non-traditional unions;
  • Enforcement of Court Orders
  • Guardian Ad Litem;
  • Paternity Issues.
Divorce is difficult for children, but a NJ divorce lawyer who is also trained as a divorce mediator, can help minimize the negative effect of a contested divorce on your children.
Hoping to reconcile?
  • Learn what attracts and repels in your relationship and how to mend the wounds.
  • Take advantage of Couples MediationTM to clarify what you each need and expect from the relationship. This process helps resolve issues without the stigma your partner might associate with "Therapy" or "Counseling". This type of mediation can also help you "make the decision whether to marry" or resolve second marriage issues before you get married.
  • Understand the difference between the initiator and non-initiator of divorce and how it affects your ability reconcile, mediate, or obtain a good divorce.
  • Get help finding a qualified marriage counselor or therapist

Free 20 Minute Telephone Consultation
(732) 926-0088

Serving Bergen, Middlesex, Monmouth, Morris, Ocean, Somerset, and Union counties, New Jersey.

Mediation Mission

When there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation, help couples assure a civil parting through divorce mediation, by providing a trusted forum and methodology to amicably mediate issues and disputes, thereby enabling the parties to obtain a successful divorce.

Litigation Mission

Provide the client with: unwavering loyalty, truthfulness, honesty and diligence; open communication and easy access; copies of every document; timely information to make knowing and voluntary decisions; and zealously protect and promote the client's choices even if they vary from the recommended path.

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